When you first go out on a date, don't talk about yourself. Don't talk about your fancy car or your new boat that you just got. Take it slow dude, relax. Let her get a few words in there. We weed out the bad from the good on our first dates. If you don't do it right, you will end up with more of the bad than good. Trust me, you already know about this. Shut your damn mouth! Let her take the direction of the conversation. Let her talk about what she wants to talk about. Get a feel for what she has to say. Go for it buddy, you might find out she is as dumb as a box of rocks.

You have to understand that with a date there is a small window of opportunity. The first impressions are the most important. That is the time that you get to sell yourself in a short amount of time. This is the area where you weed the good from the bad. Chances are in the first ten minutes you will know if you will ever get this chick in the sack. Or at least you should. You should be such a well tuned machine that you can see a potential lay from a mile away. Hey, that also rhymes neatly.

If she feels that you are full of yourself you won't get anywhere with her. You will end up with one hell of a boring date. Like talking to yourself? Next time go out to dinner with yourself and just talk away. You will save a few bucks. If you overwhelm her with nonsense, that is just what you will get. The only way this will work is if she is out for a free meal ticket. She is out for someone to pay her bills. This is no good unless you have a lot of money or know you will get her in the sack. Then at best, only bang her for a few weeks. Let her drain some other poor sap's wallet.

Take this time and go slow. Use small talk to its full advantage. Talk to her about useless shit that you would never talk to anyone about. Make yourself look smart, throw a little in about how much money you make, but don't over do it. Just bait the hook a little bit. This will give you space to move around. After you get her in the 'zone' as I call it, then you can start to go in deep. You have to get her on the hook before you can reel her in. Take it slow, this will help you in the long run.

Let her take the lead. See what she is made of! You will need this for later when trying to tally your chances of getting laid. You won't know if you don't allow her to talk. If you do all the talking, all you will know is what the sound of silence is like. That certainly won't help Mr. Penis any. The first date is like dancing a strange dance. There are many leads through out the night. You must be aware when a lead changes so that you are able to take over. This will enable you to work at getting in her pants. If you do all the talking, you won't know how to turn her dials. Instead, she will only be tuned to one station. That station is full of nothing but silence.

Remember, when going out on that first date don't be full of yourself. No woman wants that. No woman wants to hear of your lavish apartment, how your accountant gets bug eyes every year at tax time, how your ex used you for all your money. She wants to hear small talk. She wants to hear about how you like her ear rings and the smell of her hair. That will get you a lot farther than talking about yourself. You already know about yourself, get to know that person next to you!