The
Positions
We'll present the most popular
positions, and what features make each one fun - plus any
minuses to each position. Some people love to fuck while lying
on their sides. Some people read the Karma Sutra and try some
truly amazing positions for making love, and some prefer their
own tried and true favourite positions. Please remember that
when trying any new sexual position, the man should be gradual
inserting his penis into his partner and should begin with a
slow stroke till both partners have had time to accustom
themselves to the new position so that they feel more
confident.
Missionary Style
The missionary position
is the most common position for intercourse in the western
culture. The reason we call it the missionary position is
because in the nineteenth century, Christian missionaries
considered it the only "proper" position for intercourse.
These missionaries tried to convince foreigners to adopt this
position as they claimed it was less "animalistic" than other
sexual positions. What it basically is is the man gets on top
of the woman, with both partners facing each other. He gets
between her legs, inserts his penis, and lies on her while
using his hands or elbows to hold up part of his weight and to
move him. In reality, the man on top position can be pretty
versatile. Some people enjoy this position, feeling it is
intimate because you can see your partner's face.
If
the woman holds herself just right, she can easily enjoy the
man's pubic bone rubbing her clitoris (allowing her to
orgasm). If her partner wants deeper penetration than the
missionary position typically offers, his partner can raise
her legs and he can pull her forward.
Woman On Top
Many couples prefer the
female superior position also known as the woman on top
position. A lot of women like this position because they can
control how deep and how hard the penis' strokes are. By
experimenting with the positions of the body to cause changes
in the angles of insertion, the woman can frequently enjoy
better stimulation of the clitoris lying on top.
Also
the woman can kneel over her partner or squat over her
partner. She can face him or face away from him. A squatting
position allows the woman to use her calves as well as her
thigh muscles for motion. Or while squatting, she can put her
feet on the floor in order to partly stand and then lower
herself. This position is great if either the man or the woman
wish to masturbate the woman's clitoris. Woman on top is also
a perfect position for a woman who likes to look at her
partner's face during intercourse.
Lying On Your Sides
This is the best
position for the woman who likes to masturbate during
intercourse. It leaves her front area fully open to be
touched. Many women find that the easiest position to allow
use of a vibrator when being fucked from behind when both
partners are on their sides. Also there are amazing
opportunities for the man to fondle his partner's breasts - or
anything else he likes.
Some couples find that far
more body to body contact occurs while spooning on their
sites, allowing them to feel connected with their partner. A
lot of men also find they can last longer in this position
because it does not allow as vigorous a stroke. It is not
possible while spooning to easily enjoy a long stroke, but a
deep stroke works quite well. This is an excellent position
for intercourse when the woman is in her last few months of
pregnancy as long as you are careful not to fuck too deeply.
Experiment a little with this position - try it with the
woman's upper leg up, or down. Try thrusting in slightly
different angles. You can find a LOT of different sensations
using this position!
Standing Up
Adventurous couples find
standing during intercourse can be quite exciting. The easiest
way is to have the woman bend over. This way, her vagina is
available and open, and her partner will find himself able to
penetrate especially deeply. Also you can enjoy looking down
at your partner in a totally different way. If you're a guy
who enjoys using a little more athletic prowess, this position
is a good one. You use more energy standing than you do lying
down or sitting. Also it takes more balancing, so be sure that
both partners have positioned themselves and are well-balanced
before attempting to have intercourse while standing - you
wouldn't want to fall.
Also some people sit the woman
on a desk or dresser. The male stands while his partner sits
with her pelvis forward and her legs apart at the edge of the
surface. Man standing woman sitting is a great position
because it allows the man intense control of his thrusts.
Also, the women can control the angle that the penis enters
her by shifting her hips, allowing her much better orgasms
using this position and masturbation together. Experimenting
with new sexual positions can keep sex fresh and new. Each new
position can bring new experiences in touching, in angles, in
prolonging your sexual experience or in making it more
passionate. Some positions may allow one of you to have more
intense orgasms, or to find different sensations and different
feelings in joining your bodies.
Having new positions
and experimenting with them can provide endless variety to any
relationship, whether established or brand new.